Monday, March 21, 2011

Malaysia just 'too shallow' about children born from unmarried parents

Malaysia Just Has To Grow Up! It's one's personal choice if she or he wants to have children out of marriage. This is something that happens in all first world countries and developing countries.

More people today have lost hope in the 'marriage institution'. Stop criminalizing Malays by using 'Islam' as the passport. It's only normal that they disregard the marriage institution simply because the divorce rate among their society is rather high. And when it comes to Non Malays, it's absolutely their right to choose if they would prefer children after marriage or without marriage.

The Child can carry the paternal or maternal surname depending who chooses to keep the child. In Islam, the child can carry the surname 'Abdullah'. Such decisions of having children without marriage, In many cases, is the choice of highly educated and strong minded women who are professionals and i strongly believe they have the finance and strength to be a single mother. It shouldn't be anyone's business. As the saying goes; Mind Your Own Business! (MYOB).

PUTRAJAYA: The country is witnessing an increasing trend of children born out of wedlock with 234,674 cases recorded between 2006 and last year, the National Registration Department revealed.

Describing the situation as alarming, NRD director-general Datuk Alwi Ibrahim said last year alone, 52,982 children of the 510,462 births registered were born out of wedlock.With the exception of last year, the number of cases increased in tandem with the number of births registered.

Based on NRD statistics, 38,258 out of the 472,983 births in 2006 were accorded illegitimate child status, the term used to refer to those born out of wedlock.

The figure surged to 44,234 out of 484,722 births in 2007; 46,822 out of 496,414 in 2008; and, 52,378 out of 516,645 births in 2009.For Muslims, the illegitimate child status is given to babies whose parents have not performed the "akad nikah" (soleminisation) or those born less than six Qamariah months after the solemnisation, according to the National Fatwa Council.

For non-Muslims, the status applies to babies of unmarried mothers.Of the three main races in the country, the statistics revealed, the trend was prevalent among the Malays, followed by the Chinese and Indians, respectively, from 2006 to 2008.However, in 2009 and last year, there were more Indian babies born out of wedlock compared with the Chinese.

There was also a surge in the number of illegitimate children in the "Others" category, which lumps together all Malaysians who are not of the three major races, and foreigners."The increase in cases is not very significant when compared with the number of births registered, but still there is no drop in the figures," Alwi told the New Straits Times.He said even though the NRD did not "zoom in" on the reasons why children were born out of wedlock when their births were registered, he attributed the trend to an increase in the country's population, the younger generation's exposure to unsavoury material, lack of awareness on birth registration laws as well as an influx of immigrants. And while the department's job was only to register births, Alwi said the matter must be viewed seriously by all quarters.

Therefore, he said, it would inform the authorities, such as the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry and the Islamic Development Department, so that proper action could to be taken."Leaders, the community, relevant agencies, parents and schools must address this issue and see how best to tackle this problem. We all have a role to play."We need to have proper sex education so that individuals will fully understand the implications and responsibilities that come with sex." Illegitimate Muslim children, Alwi added, would face complications under syariah.

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